Online Dating Insider

MingleMatch issued the following press release:

MingleMatch Achieves Significant Milestone With Color Code Personality Profiling

Number of Members Using the Color Code Relationship Profile Service Surpasses 170,000

PROVO, Utah, June 28 MingleMatch, Inc. -- a worldwide leader in providing online dating sites targeted to specific markets -- today announced it recently exceeded 170,000 members that have taken advantage of the Color Code Relationship Profile service available on all MingleMatch sites. Through the Color Code Relationship Profile -- available through an exclusive strategic relationship with Dr. Taylor Hartman, developer of the Color Code system -- MingleMatch sites provide subscribers with a greater level of personal awareness, more accurate matching of members, and an insightful compatibility assessment.

"MingleMatch is pleased with the value our members have found in the Color Code Relationship Profile," said Ryan Sanders, vice president of MingleMatch, Inc. "We established the relationship with Hartman Communications because we realized the incredible potential and added value the Color Code could bring to our dating sites. To surpass 170,000 members participating in the service in only 6 months, really validates that decision."

"I'm thrilled that so many members of the MingleMatch sites have found the Color Code Relationship Profile such an added benefit," said Dr. Hartman. "Our original vision of many successful relationships built through MingleMatch and the Color Code is quickly coming to pass. I anticipate thousands, if not millions, more singles benefiting from this service."

On MingleMatch's niche-dating sites, the Color Code Relationship Profile is generated as participants answer a 45-question profile. The results of each profile places the individual in one of four core color groups -- red, white, yellow, or blue -- with the possibility of a secondary color of varying strength. An individual is given a detailed picture of what each color means. Knowing these personality traits, motivators, and idiosyncrasies creates a higher level of self-awareness and an understanding of how to relate to others.

Participants generally answer the profile questionnaire on their first or second day on a MingleMatch site -- another validation of the service's value. The Profile allows members to know more about themselves, more about the people they meet, and have a much clearer understanding of the multiple characteristics of successful relationships.

In addition to the success of the Color Code Relationship Profile, MingleMatch is experiencing continued strong growth that far outpaces the industry in general. The company recently launched six new niche-dating sites. "We are encouraged by our consistent, unprecedented growth," said Sanders. "It's testament to the value singles place on the 'clean, safe, and friendly' online dating environment we create."

About MingleMatch, Inc.

MingleMatch, Inc. is a privately held company that manages and maintains demographically targeted singles communities online. With more than 25 niche online dating sites, MingleMatch provides its services to hundreds-of-thousands of single men and women. Under the mission-statement of "clean, safe, and friendly," MingleMatch provides a clean, anonymous online environment where members meet comfortably and safely. The company's rapid growth continues to prove MingleMatch sites as premier destinations for niche online dating.

Paul Alasko, a licensed therapist, offers online dating advice in his advice column in the Monterey County Herald.

He starts by saying that "[i]nternet dating is definitely not for marginal people who can't find a date from their circle of friends," but he doesn't elaborate any further on this idea.

Then he explains why the "bees to flowers" theory.

One objection I hear about using online dating is a deeply held cultural bias called "bees to flowers." This bias says that if your flower was bright or fragrant enough, you'd attract more bees. We all struggle with the fantasy that just walking into a room ought to be enough to prompt a flurry of invitations. This idea is both silly and unrealistic.

Thus he assures you that using an online dating service is not a "mark of a loser."

He says you should only agree to meet someone the first time for a half hour. Dinner is too long of a commitment, because there's such a good chance the person won't be what you were expecting.

He says you shouldn't meet at a bar. It's not clear why that's a bad idea.

He says you need to practice the "art of disengagement," that is getting out of the date after a half hour when the other person is trying to extend it.

He says that you should limit your online dating search to matches no further than 40 miles away, because its too impractical to date someone who lives further away than that. One should remember that Monterey County is a non-urban area along the California coast. If you agree with his advice, and you live in a more traffic congested area, it would make sense to cut that distance limit even further.