Reviews of eHarmony

Five years ago I took the test to join eHarmony and was rejected, told that I'm one of those people online dating would not work for.
Five years later I am in a relationship with a wonderful guy I met on Match, together two years and counting.
I am actually glad eHarmony didn't want me as a member, because things worked out beautifully without it!

This site is horrible and will only take your money. I had emailed them prior to my account closing of wanting to close it and never heard back so I though ok I will just wait till the end of the 3 months and be done with them. I had already gone to settings and closed the account. I get up today and they have managed to take another 3 months out of my account and renewed me. I again went into the account settings and closed the account but fear they will continue taking money out of my account every 3 months. It is very disturbing. You can only email them as away of contact and they DO NOT respond. I HIGHLY suggest that you stay away from this site and if you must join one make sure it is a more friendlier site that will not make it impossible for you to leave.

What a great and safe way to get to know someone.. I was on there for only a couple months. I took a big liking to 3 of the men I was matched with.. Needless to say I am now married to my first match and I cant even explain the love we share.. Its an awesome site but.. If ur gonna do it u need to be honest with ur self and figure out what it is that ur looking for.. otherwise ur paying for it and ur waisting ur money.. If ur honest it will work!

E-Harmony is a HUGE WASTE of TIME and MONEY!!

E-Hamony is a HUGE WASTE of TIME and MONEY!!

On the rare occasion that I am matched with a man who's interesting/compatible enough to even finish reading his profile, he is not available to communicate. Sometimes I send an email and in return, I receive a message that the man is no longer available. Other times, soon after sending my email, he is moved to the archive file. I do not believe the man has archived me because, according to the website, he has not viewed my profile,.

I believe E-Harmony falsely advertises many profiles that are not actually available. They HIDE from criticism by not displaying a way to communicate with them, unless it's to give them a credit card number. In the past, I wrote to complain, but never received a response.

I have been a member for more than a year and have been in contact with only one man.

All the other "matches" are ridiculous!!!!!!!! ZERO interest.

In case you missed it before . . .

E-Harmony is a HUGE WASTE of TIME and MONEY!!

E-Hamony is a HUGE WASTE of TIME and MONEY!!

After seeing all the negative reviews I have to say to those trying dating sites that I loved eharmony. I was matched with several very nice men. Chatted with many and decided to go out with two. I am now engaged to simply the most wonerful man in the world. All thanks to eharmony! It was a fun and safe way to meet some very nice men. I would highly recommend eharmony to anyone interested in a long term relationship.

I am highly disappointed with EHarmony. It is very expensive and the "matches" are nothing that I would even be remotely interested in. I must have put on the lengthy questionairre that I was looking for a man old enough to be my father. Since I am a very attractive (in my opinion), take good care of myself, educated, etc I thought I could at least attract a man of the same. Instead all matches are at least 10-20 years older. I have had only one communication that went absolutely no where. I have tried to get a refund because what was promised is not what has been received but no that is why the contract is NO REFUND. Read it carefully before signing on. My advice is that if you feel you have that much money to waste just flush it down the toilet you will have as much luck as finding the man of your dreams trying to flush it out than you will on EHarmony. I am giving one star because 0 is not an option

If I could give a negative star, I would. My year on eHarmony was a waste of money--and time. They matched me with a motley of characters that I would have never chosen myself. How about the guy who had just gotten separated four weeks before. There was another one who enjoyed hunting and killing animals, and enjoyed spending time polishing his guns (I'm a vegetarian). I could go on and on. Many of the men were 10 to 20 years older than me--really weird and unacceptable. They sent me one man who was in a wheel chair--had had cancer and a heart attack, and needed a women to take care of him (and he was 18 years older than me). Oh, how about the guy who was severly depressed, or the one who didn't have a job and needed someone to help support him. I can't repeat enough about how eHarmony is a joke and a waste of time. I did have a one date with someone who had bleach spots all over the shirt he wore, and he kept laughing constantly in a high, nervous squeal.
However, my friends and relatives enjoyed my stories about the kind of men eHarmony matched me up with--we laughed and laughed.
If this review can help save someone time and money, then it was worth my time to tell of my experience.

I just signed up again with EHarmony, hoping that just one lady will return my emails. What I have learned in the past is that many of the women (in Indiana anyhow) have an inflated view of themselves. Many are significantly overweight, are lacking in the attractiveness category, have meaningless jobs, are not well educated, and have a grudge against men. I may not be a prize, but I have a well paying job, own my home, am well educated, and in excellent shape from exercising 6 days a week. I am well rounded in my interests, a contemporary jazz aficionado, and I can cook. And I am certainly not looking for a Vogue-esque woman to serve as eye-candy. Yet - unattractive, overweight, self-centered women with low-paying jobs in dead end careers continue to want a Brad Pitt look-a-like who is 8 to 10 years younger, has wash-board abs, and a six-figure salary. What gives? Get over yourselves.

EHK

I signed up on EHarmony attracted by two things: 1) Their personality based matching and 2) the fact that non-paying users can't see profiles. I work with a lot of women / gossips who prowl the dating sites from work literally daily looking for people they know. I hope none of them subscribe to eHarmony!

Anyway, what I've found is that eHarmony is lacking in several areas. Number one is the lack of a "body type" category. I'm a young-ish (33) guy who is fit and athletic. If a woman is 100 pounds overweight, we aren't compatible. I don't care what her views on family relations or religion are. EHarmony is an absolute clearing house for morbidly obese women. I diligently open my daily matches, and end up shuddering or laughing at most.

So I let matches build up for a few weeks, and then opened every single one to find a woman I would consider even remotely attractive. I did find a few. In fact, out of the 110 matches I accumulated, I found five. That's 4.5% for you math lovers. Which means that if you're like me, you'll find 95.5% of your matches a waste of time and money.

Now if even one of my 4.5% ends up being the girl of my dreams (I'm still waiting on responses, I tried a mixture of the guided communications and a couple of emails.) then I will come back and edit this review. But for now, I would describe eHarmony as a colossal waste of time and money.

Though if you must try it, google "eHarmony coupons" and you can get it for $10 a month. I wouldn't consider it for anything more than that.

The strange thing about eHarmony is that it's set up for rejection. I am intelligent,attractive and interesting, although older (but generally taken for late 40s, early 50s).I've tried it twice. Every the time I logged on, I would discover that a good percentage of the 50-something and 60-something guys who were recommended for me had "closed" the communication, before I even got to look at their profiles! I found it a very depressing site to use - so never again.