Reviews of eHarmony

I tried Eharmony years ago and never cared for their stupid format of making the guys post a pix, but the gals didn't have to. That in itself told me the site was a total BOGUS rip-off - as to ever paying a penny to use the services other then FREE!

The C/S robots there would tell you that looks don't really matter when it comes to love and compatibility - as related to the gals not having to post a pix. If that were the case then why did they initially sucker all us guys in to sign up for FREE to begin with? Ask yourself that ? right there.

Plain and simple - sucker you in just like Match.com did, and then post tons of FAKE - BOGUS gal ads there just to get you to upgrade to a paid acct. I never fell for either site's bogus emails and money making sales tactics! Total crock of crap! Yahoo Personals is just the same!

All 3 have sued numerous times and have lost in court as to their DECEPTIVE practices, yet they still do the same to this very day! Match especially!

Of course no one can hold a candle to POF, and that totally BOGUS site that Markus guy up there in Canada runs today. Talk about FRAUD! How he even gets away with that Pyramid Scam of his is beyond me. On that one you have no one to blame but the guys there themselves, because if just half of all the guys there just dropped their accts at once that site would totally collapse in less then a weeks time!! That's a FACT!!

Anyway Eharmony sucks just like all the rest of the sites I mentioned above, and for all the same reasons.

I was so upset when I signed up and paid the big bucks for this site and only THEN did I start reading reviews. I figured it was money down the toilet. However, I wish I could talk to all of these people giving poor reviews because I have had nothing but a good experience. I get about 6 new matches each day and usually about 50% live very close to me and 50% live within an hour's drive. Every now and then I get someone that lives very far, but it is the exception to the rule. I have gone on several dates with men I have met through the site and I have only belonged for about a month and a half. I have met some really great guys but not 'the one' yet. I would love to talk to someone more about this because my experience has only been good.

e harmony is a toatally a waste of time and money and as for my rating -5 my preferance was 30 miles and i got matches from 2000 and 3000 miles away oh and the girls on there dont communicate back so as for e harony (FUCK YOU)

I have 3 pages of closed matches. I have only been a member for 3 months now and I havent communicated with anyone. Not one single person has replied to the intro questions. eHarmony is very discouraging... I really don't think they have enough members to match people with or they are generating profiles like so many other sites do. All they have is good marketing. I wish i hadn't purchased a year subscription.

I was beginning to wonder if something was wrong with me until I started reading all of the reviews posted here. I signed up with eHarmony for a 3 month tryout. I have received about 3 matches that looked promising in a 2 month period, however, they all disappeared off the face of the earth in mid communication. It has been extremely disappointing. I have been matched with men who are much older (20 years), do not share any of my interests, will not send me pictures, etc. Upon reading these reviews I realize some of these men probably are not even members!! I will definitely not join this site again. I joined thinking this would be a good site to meet someone interested in a serious relationship. I guess I should have read the reviews before signing up. Well, live and learn.

I have been on e-Harmony for two weeks now and have yet to get past the first exchange of questions for the 2 matches that I would say were compatible. I receive 5 to 8 matches most days - 99% are garbage, several years older than requested range, living in the U.S., etc. I decided to try the site as my circle of friends are married with families and I haven't had many opportunities to meet new people.

It is interesting that the 5* reviews on this site sound like scripted advertisements for e-Harmony. Will I renew? Hell no. Will I recommend it to friends? No. In fact I will strongly recommend that they do not waste their time or money.

I tried Eharmony for a few months in 2008. I recieved a list of 'matches', but few seemed compatible. I'm not a picky person, but nearly all of my matches had at least one thing that I listed as 'must not have'...things like distance, smoking, etc. The few I tried to contact never responded because they were no longer active on the site.

I had 1 day left in my subscription when I recieved several new matches. Those matches actually fit my description of what I was looking for. The hitch was: to email them, I would have to renew my subscription.

I felt it was a complete rip off. They should be up front about which profiles are still 'active'. They should allow you to browse profiles. I would recommend nearly any other dating website over eharmony.

I'm very dissapointed in eharmony. I've been a member for 1 month and have yet to be sent an even close compatible mate. I don't think they even bother to match! Not even one guy has bothered to contact me- I'm 60 yrs. old and living in a small town, but I'm fairly attractive and interesting. My distance request was for 100 mi. which I feel is reasonable, but they've sent me matches as far away as Wyoming! What a waste of money! I'm glad someone mentioned the automatic renewl scam- I plan on cancelling before the 6 mos. is up.

I would give eHarmony zero stars.
I am an attractive, intelligent and outgoing woman and thought it would be fun to try internet dating outside of match.com and yahoo personals. MISTAKE.
The cost of eHarmony is greater and the return is ZERO. I have not met anyone on this site and at this point (two months into my three months) I don't even sign on to check my account.
My advice would be to stick with match.com and forget eHarmony.

I just joined EH and so far I'm not impressed. I have had many "matches", two communications and some icebreakers. I wonder how it is they send you an email alerting you to your matches and when you go the site, you find 5 people have "closed" you and you never even saw them before. Oh and the reason they closed it was because of the physical distance is too great? WTH, some only lived a few miles away. If you can't make some sacrifice when dating, how do you expect to meet your soulmate? If(this is a big IF)you do find them and get married, will you be too friggin lazy to make sacrifices then? One complaint I have with men on these sites...please use current photos. I have had 2 dates with men who obviously uploaded pics from before Y2k. C'mon do you honestly think you can pull that off for very long? The truth comes out and when it does, you look like a deceitful fool. I would rather date an average looking guy but who doesnt try to misprepresent himself. I would love to meet one man who is confident(not cocky), not insecure about his looks and doesnt try to be something he isnt. If you can't feel good about yourself, no matter how attractive you are(or arent), it doesnt matter. I'll take a plain guy with an honest sexy personality anytime. In summary, I think most online dating sites are full of deceit. It is a numbers game. I will probably forgo this whole internet dating thing entirely and stick to a 1 in a million chance meeting somehow somewhere. People, save your money. Its a jungle out there.