Reviews of eHarmony

Iam very upset first time customer and it was told that it was free and i filled out the questainarre and then nothing i have to pay i have 3 children with one being disabled and i feel i wasted my time for something that was supposed to be free i live on a budget and a single mom and now after all that it costs very hurt and disappointed

Yeah, change that to negative star rating.
Agree. SCAM!! We need to write to the Better Business Bureau and report this company!! I thought the philosophy of the company made a lot of sense, but I too have had more than my share of craziness with this site.
After going for days, and writing customer service (and yes, getting the standard yaddah-yaddah reply about REALLY getting to know my matches...blah, blah, BLAH!!), I told them I wanted a refund for the remainder of my subscription or I would turn them in. I finally got their attention and they let me out of my "contract".
What a waste though. I tried going up to 300 miles out of my area, just to see what was out there, but, come on....we have to be able to spend time with someone to see if we have chemistry and compatibility!!!
I also started to get all these "flex" matches, which were absolutely NOT a match. I also felt there were many, many dead-beat matches on the site.
I told the company that they were doing a disservice to their customers if they did not at least find a way to let the paying customers know which matches were actually ACTIVE members.
NO integrity. They will take your money and run. Really sad and too bad.
Plenty of Fish is FREE!!!

I started to fill out the questionnaire during a free trial period. I got bored so went back to it later. I had about 62% complete, no pictures loaded and I had 3 members who were attracted by my profile. I don't think so. I would bet these are phantom profiles and a deceptive attempt to get me to sign up.

I agree with the "scam" reviews. Not only is there no viable method of "matching" me to unmarried, emotionally available men who are monogamists or even minimally interested in a serious relationship, I had absolutely no Must Haves or Can't Stands around finding a Born-Again mate and every single "match" was a Born-Again, and none, interestingly, ever began a conversation with me. I subscribed on a promotional basis and I wrote the date down so that I wouldn't forget to cancel the account prior to renewal. eHarmony actually denied that I closed my account prior to renewal and debited my bank card anyway! I was furious. They actually tried to tell me I hadn't cancelled my account! I have had it up to my eyeballs with online matching. I've tried eH off and on for over 5 years and never again will I be sucked into their trickery. It's disgraceful.

I'm already angry writing this because there isn't an option for NO STARS!!! So disappointed with this service, it's such a scam. I met literally two guys on the site because the rest of the guys never used it, those two guys also sexually harassed me. I couldn't even figure out how to use the dang site, none of the matches were organized and if you looked once and weren't interested you couldn't delete them!! Every time I would log in I would forget which guy it was so I'd click on the page and realize I already saw, read & didn't like, however, at that very same moment the guy was getting a message telling him I creeped his page so then he'd NEVER leave me alone!!! Just a ridiculous, expensive, hard to maneuver, creeper friendly site, whoever made this is clearly already married. VERY disappointed Eharmony, you need a better webmaster for your site.

I work in an insurance company. My character, cheerful and lively, honest, warm, like making friends, reading, travel, listening to music. In her spare time I like my friends to travel together, to see the wild landscape, flowers and birds, I like the sun in the happy laugh, I sometimes take their moment of happiness, and look forward to sharing with you! I am by nature a happy, I hope that the infection can be happy that you let us share this joy every minute of time, the sun is so bright, blue sky is so clear, I would like you to pass this message and become each other's partners. To It! This is an open embrace of you,

www.gagamatch.com

This site gets a zero star.

I have been reading earlier posts. Everytime, there are lots of bad reviews, one VERY GOOD with 5 stars review appeared. The style of writing showed that it came from the company itself.

Yeah, eharmony is just a scam with full of scammers. Match.com is the same. We deny they are because we are looking for love elsewhere, for that soulmate. After my incident which I described below, it took a while to sink in that your soulmate could just be around the corner from your house.

I subscribed to eharmony during a trial period. I got matched INSTANTLY by many people. When I reply, I got tons of replies but then no follow up from within 100 kms. The followup are always on the other side of the world, the unreachable ones, later to be found to be fake ones.

Then when my trial period was about to end, matches have suddenly and exponentially increased.

This is where I got scammed. I got one ideal match made in heaven. I got matched with a beautiful italian girl named kate dante, also known as kate orlando (from the picture only). We built rapport for three months, even talked on the phoned with her parents, then found out she was in trouble. She needed money, ,mentioning about god. How a fool I was ! I helped her and she needed more money to pay for hospital. etc. her family pleaded to help. How a stupid samaritan I was. I gave some more, they never asked a lot. Just one thousand, then another thousand, then another one. they kept me emotionally hooked.

Later, I had enough and went to investigate online. I found out it was a scam out of enugu, Nigeria (google kate dante or kate orlando). well, I thought since family is involved, her parents should be for real. Afterall, why would parents teach A DAUGHTER to steal ? well, it turned after going thru psychology courses that these people have low respect, low self esteem. They are low life. Lies, lies and lies.

Other people have been scammed by same thieves that also run business out of colorado. they are living the great life by stealing others from their hard earned money.

All I can say to people out there. Do a google search FIRST. that was a mistake I made. Should have done that but as always hindsight is 20/20.

I am so glad my "inner voice" stopped me from entering my debit card info to join EH. I went as far as filling out the questionnaire, uploading a couple of photos and completing my profile. I chose "anywhere in the world" as my region of choice and lo and behold, I had only 7 matches. Yep, you read that right. 7 matches in the entire world.

I am not a sociopath, troll, insane, or otherwise undesirable. The only thing I could think of that limited my matches was that I checked "not religious and not spiritual". I didn't even say that my match had to be the same. I answered the question honestly which is what I thought I was supposed to do. I had heard a few rumors in the past that EH is largely based on religion. Factor in some of the posts on this website talking about getting 100's of matches vs. my 7, I believe those rumors to be true.

I was really excited about EH before all of this, but now I'm just thrilled to have been wise enough to end it before any money was exchanged. Hundred of dollars for 7 matches? I think not. Hip hip hooray to my inner voice!

I have tried e harmony several times over the years and I answered all the questions and I'm sure that the 5'7 traveler isn't my match or the 400 lb bass player or the 72 year old farmer.
I had sent so many e mails telling them that they are not looking at my profile and that sending me people who do not fit is not okay for me or for them. Maybe these men are not suited to me but would be great for someone else.
I did meet two guys and yah they were way better on paper. Why would one lie? I told the truth and I would expect the same.
Yup should have tossed my money in the trash as far as that experience went. Have been single for 6 years and I'd rather meet some one by chance than do this again!

I'm wondering if the matches I receive are for real or phantom ones, nobody looks at my profile or answers my first questions, the only ones who answered are sex maniacs. I'm convinced now that I have wasted my time and money