Reviews of eHarmony

I communicated with 5 men.

Turn out they are all scammers from NIGERIA asking me to send them money by western union.

Their profiles say they are from the US, UK, and Canada. The profiles are fake.

Scammers are running wild in Eharmony, Match.com, and other dating sites. It is the wild west. The dating sites ain't doing anything.

BEWARE LADIES ! NOT ONLY ARE WE LOSING MONEY IN SUBSCRIPTION, BUT ALSO IN TIME AND COULD LAND UP FINANCIALLY COSTLY.

IF YOU SEE ANYTHING REMOTELY RELATED TO NIGERIA, IT IS A SCAM. IF MONEY IS ASKED, IT IS A SCAM.

Only 3% of eharmony members get married, which means Eharmony is NO BETTER than any other dating service and its dues are WAY too high. Let’s do something about it. I keep getting emails from women who want to meet me but I can’t see their pictures because I’m not a member. But they think I can! And so these “Free Communication Weekends” are there to build up a FAKE MEMBER BASE so people will pay outrageous monthly fees thinking eharmony rocks when it TOTALLY doesn’t. To save these poor women from thinking I can respond back, I just REMOVED MY PHOTO from my profile. I suggest ALL OTHERS NON-MEMBERS do the same. If every non-member does this, I assume that more than 1/2 the photos will come down, followed by 1/2 their members leaving, followed by eharmoney monthy rates dropping by about 1/2, which is where they SHOULD be. Good luck and REMOVE YOUR PICTURES ASAP non-members!

Thank you for all your reviews!!! I was very close to clicking that button on joining. I even took a long time on answering all their questions!! From the sounds of it here wouldn't have mattered much of my answers. I am a very opened minded person , but have had no luck with match.com. I thought maybe eharmony may have been a bit more mature. The ppl I have met off of match!!! Were unstable and on that site for their own needs. I also felt and wrote to match asking how the heck do u match ppl up!! Cause u are sending me ppl who live hours away or ppl who don't fit my answers at all. They were matching me up with freaking bananas!! I am not all about looks, but I told them come on is this a joke!! Who's filming me right now!! Lol. Anyway. Ty for all your experiences, sounds like the all the dating sites are just scanners. Put your coin in the slot machine and hope for the best!!! I will let love take it's natural corse:)
Good luck everyone. Moc:)

Wow, i was thinking of joining, but now that i've read all these negetive reviews about Eharmony, there's no chance in hell i'll join now. I'm actually on a FREE dating web site called " OKCUPID"
and i get at least 5 messages a day with women that are compatible with me 50% or higher matches, i mostly get 90% matches, so spread the word people. If you hate Eharmony then lets shut them down by not joining, then the only people left on their will be scammers scaming other scammers. Brilliant huh?
Thanks i just thaught of that. But on a serious note, as long as your serious about finding a mate, the best advice i can recommend giving you is go on a Free dating site, and Post at least 1 picture or more of yourself looking your best. And start clicking on people's pictures that you find acttractive, read there profile, rate there picture, and message them and compliment them on how much you liked reading there profile. it's worked for me, and ever since i've been getting messages like crazy. Well that's it. that's the secret. "OKCUPID" really does an awesome job. Well gotta go. I just recieved some messages,
i gotta read them and respond to them now. Good Luck Everyone! :)

Eharmony is crap, I sent at least 40+ e-mail requests to half the matches the system sent me in the first few weeks, and only had about 2 or 3 accept communication and even read what I wrote, which promptly went nowhere. I found it to be basically on the same level as plentyoffish or other free dating sites in terms of level of contact. HUGE waste of money that I could have spent way better at the bars!

Wow! I am surprised to read all the bad reviews. I signed up for 6 months and while I admit the monthly charge is a bit high I am ok with it. At my age (36) if a woman can't afford that a month or isn't interested enough in a relationship to pay the subscription fee then it wouldn't work anyway. Its still cheaper than what a months worth of drinks at the bar on weekends would cost.

During my 6 month stay I met several nice women and went on numerous dates... multiple dates with a few of the women. Personality wise all were good fits but for one reason or another none of them worked until a few months ago when I hit the jackpot! The last few months have been pure bliss and we're both amazed at how well we mesh.

We have been inseperable since the first week we met and truly feel as though we have known each other forever.

I am sorry for those that have been victims of Nigerian scammers but c'mon people... use some common sense. Thankfully intelligence was always rated high on my list of wants so I avoided scammers and victims of scammers in my matches. Best of luck!

Joining eHarmony has been one of my worst nightmares! I wish that I had checked out this review before I joined. I feel that most concerns stated here, are repeats of my own! I will not repeat what has already been acknowledged, but decided to add something that will probably haunt me for the rest of my life! I was told by their customer service that my photos and personal information are with eHarmony permanently!

It started when I filed a complaint with BBB about the drop off in matches, and the photoless matches, once they had my third, and final payment installment. They refunded $107.80 of a $325.00 year's subscription after three months, and closed me out of my profile before I had a chance to delete my photos and personal information! I have asked them, I've gone back through BBB, and to no avail, they would not allow me the opportunity to delete my profile. I still had nine months left on my subscription, so they refunded me a third of my payment so that they could close my account! With RelyID, they had access to my credit report. Of course I have taken additional steps to safeguard my identity from theft, but what an awful way to do business!

Please be careful on that site. There is something terribly wrong, and we innocently clicked that "I agree to terms and conditions " button too quickly! It's like a game, and to think that I once thought so highly of them!

eharmony is full of fake profiles with nigerian scammers.

match.com is the same.

google LOVE SCAM and you will see thousands of people who have been scammed and are being scammed.

YES, I WAS SCAMMED ON EHARMONY AND MY TWO FRIENDS WERE SCAMMED ON MATCH.COM.

Got on E-Harm and signed up for a three month trial.

Attempted to get a refund the following day after My credit card was charged $239.40 and I was never on the site. After over a year I was just offered $99.75 as a partial refund.

Long Story, but bottom line? They are criminals, and I will be taking them to small claims court here in Florida.

That will cost them a whole lot more than $239!!!

Cant wait.

My actual rating is negative 5 stars for dishonesty.

Hey everyone,
I have been reading all of these reviews for the past couple of hours and it has become extremely clear that most of you are very unhappy with the services of eHarmony. I plan to build a site for people who truly intend to find love and have a few ideas for achieving this and would love to share them with you! The reason for my post is I would like to hear distinct things you would like to see in an online "dating" site that others don't have. I am readily awaiting feedback to this post and will email you back as soon I can. My email is, thelovepuzzle@gmail.com

Thanks,
Keith