Reviews of eHarmony

A total waste of time and money! I have been a member for approximately 3 years, the people that I am matched with do not have the courtesy to respond in a timely manner. The majority live farther that 40 miles from me in los angeles, they lie about their age, and worst of all are inconsiderate!. the bottom line is, DO NOT WASTE YOUR TIME OR MONEY SIGNING UP WITH THIS E-dis Harmony site. You are better off meeting someone at work, in a social setting, or an introduction from a friend.

Well first off, whatever program or computer they use to send out your potential "matches" apparently aren't smart enough to figure out when someone lives in the same house as you! True story, eharmony matched me up with my own BROTHER! I mean seriously, how can I trust the matches I am getting when the dang system can't even figure out that someone with the same LAST NAME AND ADDRESS might be related? After all that, my email and matches were flooded with matches that you can't just easily delete, your forced to actually go through each one to close the match, and give a reason why you closed the match. Does it matter why? Not interested, move on. I also had the same cancelations problems most people seem to encounter in that, they don't let you cancel. Even though I had turned OFF the auto renew they still auto renewed my subscription weeks before it was scheduled to expire with no notification whatsoever that I was being charged. (I initially paid for a 6 month membership) I just happened to catch it 1 day before the renewal dates were going to take effect so I called to cancel and at first they were not going to give me a refund because I did not cancel before the renewal charge had already gone through. Basically I told them "bull ship" that I HAD turned off the auto renewal, I still canceled within my original subscription and that If they didn't refund me I was going to file a dispute with my bank for an unauthorized credit transaction. They finally did fund my account but it took them at least a week to do so. Finally, most of the profiles they sent were either empty (clearly fake or people not seriously looking for real relationships) or didnt have enough info to be worth the five million questions and hoops you have to jump through before you can even talk to someone directly (whether it be phone or email or IM) Beware to anyone considering using this site!

Totally dissapoint with eharmony since I joint couple days ago. They did send me match but they control how to communicate, I can't talk freely.. after looonnngggggg fill out their question to joint, soooo expensive and this is what I get?... all i can do there just click and click... send question and answer the question from match. I feel so weird about this site. after my membership run, I will cancel to renew. match.com is waaayyy more better, I joint and met lots guys, they're nice but i just didn't get click, finally I had date from match.com for about 4 months, at least, dealing with match.com it's like in real world, can talk with someone freely, asking someone freely and meet when I want to meet.Eharmony is really suck.. suck ... suck..
ps. got to give rating here, actually I even don't want to give rating to eharmony

I am making Tshirts about how F#@$@!*% pathetic E Harmony is. (Stuck up Gold Digging Women who are expecting to find Brad Pitt not to mention they have you retake the test and tell you literally to go to Hell!!! The T Shirts are $10.00 email me at va1862@aol.com if you are interested is getting one. LETS SPREAD THE WORD AROUNG ABOUT THESE CROOKS SHALL WE !!!

J.G. Moore
A.R.M.
(Advocate For Rejected Men)

I rated it a 1 because you have to. I honestly cannot give it a rating PERIOD!!!!!

like a prior post, I went on line, prior to the renewal date of my e-harmony account. I followed their directions for setting my account to NOT auto pay. Yet, immediately on my expiration date my account was billed for another 3 months. As with the prior post, I contacted e-harmony and was told there was nothing they could do. All I can say is that I DO now have an email that says it won't renew again in 3 months - stay posted for what comes next

rating star, NONE. Very poor review from me.

I signed up for one month of their services. After one month getting messages from persons that were not within my age group and other issues, I decided to cancel. This was in February. I went to the setting section on eHarmony and cancelled autopay. Now months later after viewing my bank statements I noticed they have been withdrawning over 49.00 from my account.

I contacted eHarmony regarding my concern and it was stated I didnt cancel the autopay. They continued to withdrawn money from my account and will not refund my money
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After explaining I followed the correct cancellation procedure, He had the nerve to ask me if I still had the email sent after I cancelled.
I explained that this was back in February and No I don't have it any longer.

So, everyone please be warned, and pay attention. If at all possible
read all the reviews regarding eHarmony before you subscribe.
They are a joke and steal from people looking for that special person.
BEWARE, BEWARE, BEWARE.

OMG, lots of scammers from Nigeria.

So many fake profiles. They bond with you and after a few months ask for money.

My friend just found out yesterday that the person she was dealing with is a Nigerian scammer.

Please GOOGLE the person's name, email address, or telephone number.

GOOGLE "LOVE SCAM", and do a search. This is how she found out about the scammer.

ANYTHING RELATED TO NIGERIA AND ASKING FOR MONEY TO BE SENT BY WESTERN UNION IS A SCAM.

More like a BIG FAT ZERO!!!

After filling out an endless questionaire they don't match you on any of your personality traits, or whats important to you....

The matches they sent me were so off the wall.. I just couldn't believe it!!! Old Men that lie about their age and just want sex or somebody to take care of them....YUK, YUK, YUK...

Oh I forgot the crazy Cat Guy, that had naked photos of he and his kitty.... so gross...

Ladies you might have better luck corresponding with prisoners!! Don't bother!

And beware the automatic renewal, they refuse to refund!!!

Could not give eharm a lower review. They sure do make a good commercial though-- happy couples who have each met their soulmate through eharm's supposed matching process and dimensional compatibility. Ever notice how picturesque the couples are on the main page? Never an ugly couple to behold. I live in the country, 100 miles from a major city, and I have absolutely no interest in relocating to said city (which was part of the reason I resorted to eharm). But, my results were absolutely polluted (and I mean that) with women from city and suburbs, having nothing in common with me from interests to, obviously, backgrounds. I have a lot of things going for me, if I do say so myself: good job, college educated, my own house, and financially stable, but it never seemed to matter to any prospective match. At first, I thought anyone who would outlay the preposterous membership fee would be more serious and open to a dating relationship-- I could not have been more wrong. Just because I pay to email people doesn't mean they'll return my correspondence. The notion that a pay site would have different results than a free one is the biggest scam in online dating. After three months, I have over 500 "matches," and have never had an email returned. The reason I believe they have nothing to do with my search criteria is because I've received anywhere from 7 to 10 new matches a day. Really? Seven to ten more new soulmates per day? I thought an intrinsic and dynamic matching system would be more particular. But let's be honest, gentlemen, personals sites are nothing more than candy stores for women. Pick and choose what you want, and the coconut-covered hazelnuts such as myself are left in life's candy box and discarded. Pay sites-- never again. I'll get all the rejection I can handle for free.

First of all, I would like to give it negative 5* but there wasn't any option for that!
I signed up on eharmony website having seen it advertised on TV saying it's FREE for the weekend.
This is probably having a bit of an emotional moment having watched the Royal Wedding on 29-Apr-11.
Like what many have experienced, you have to fill up pages and pages of questionnaire to "determine" your type so that they can "match" you with someone your interest.
It was indeed free to sign up but not free to view the profiles of the matches they claimed to "view your profile".
After 2 days of notification telling me they found a match for me, and reading the negative reviews on this webpage, I took down my photos, deleted information of myself and close the account.
But till now, I kept getting emails EVERYDAY telling me they have found a "match" for me.
How is this possible to find a match for me when I put next to no information about myself?
Glad I didn't spend a single cent to sign up for this.
The only annoyance is the daily email notification telling me they have found me a "match"!
It is unscrupulous that commercial websites like this are targeting lonely hearts out there, who's genuine in trying to find a soulmate or expand their social circle.