Reviews of Friend Finder

Friend Finder Inc should change the name of the site adultloserfinder.com because that's all you find there... A bunch of Fat, loser women, and a ton of drifty f@gs, and the motherload of desperate men. At the end, I realized that I was a loser for even being on that site, and I didn't hesitate to delete my account.

If you wanna call my run on that site lucky then so-be-it. I met 3 chuncky chicks on that site and had sex with them. The only good thing I can say about them is they had cute faces. Each of these chuncky chicks wanted to meet again, but they wanted me to bring a few friends so they could have an orgy. (The thing is none of my friends would ever screw them.) Wanna call me desperate?... FINE.

I had a good return rate for getting replies to my emails. For the most part these women wouldn't reply to the second email. Most of the women on that site I had communicated with were older but in good shape, or they were younger and from eith Canada, California, or Texas. On occasion, I would get an email from an attractive, yet older woman. She would send me a couple of pictures of herself and ask If I was Interested in her. I'd reply with the YES answer, but they never replied back to me.

The most bizarre email exchange I had was from this strange middle-aged woman. Judging from her gross profile pictures she has to be downright ugly (yeah, they were the old body and genitelia pictures... Huge body and small breast that hang a mile) She sent me an email bragging about how she's been greatly educated, in some sort of fassion that I should be honored to even get that email from her. I gave her the worst reply I could think of. A week later, she had written an article on that site about our email exchange. Somehow, this monster of a woman took my bad reply personally. I didn't take it personally, but it did effect my opinion about the users on that website.

At this point, I had a cult following of pasty-faced f@gs. I don't know why these fags liked me so much, I wasn't listed as seeking men; my guess is they liked my crotch pictures (To explain, I'm in good shape, and I have a 8.5 inch penis and I had those pictured in my profile... If you're willing to put a picture of your crotch on the internet... Then there's a good chance you're desperate for sex!). 2 fags and 4 crossdressers had me listed in their Hotlist, and I get about 1 email a week from some guy who wanted to give me head.

The worst case I had was from this mallado guy. I was in the chatrooms and he started to send me IMs, asking if we could meet. As the minutes dragged on, the IMs from him became more lewd. Finally, I put him on my Ignore list, but that didn't stop him. This f@g started to write to me in the chatroom. He kept explainging to the room the lewd, homosexual acts he would perform on me. It's at this point that I had to contact the site about this guy harassing me.

A week later, I was on the IM system again and I recieved an IM from another gay male. I asked him why these gay guys were always hitting on strait men. He told me that on adultfriendfinder he meets with guys on a weekly basis who say they're strait but they're actually in the closet. You know what this tell me about the guys on adultfriendfinder? This tell me that the guys on adultfriendfinder are extremely desperate for sex.

What drove me from the site was the very thing I was looking for on there. I was on the IM system and a woman sent me her phone number and asked me to call her. After doing a reverse search on her phone number I called her. About 20 minutes later she was at my place. While the sex was nice, niether of us enjoyed ourselves.

After some careful thought, I came to the conclusion that I can't have fulfilling sex with a woman I barely know. Furthermore, I concluded that I could do a lot better than what's on adultfrindfinder.com. This is a case of logic... I asked myself 2 realistic questions: 1. Would I mind showing any of these women from adultfriendfinder to my friends and family? 2. In the worst case scenario, would I mind it if I was/am to make one of these girls from adultfrindfinder pregnant. You can guess the answers to these questions. My final opinion is... A guy that's on adultfriendfinder has to be a real loser with women.

I consider myself lucky to have left that site intact... The next time you're in public, in a place where there's a lot of couples, look at them and see who attracts who. The buff men are always with skinny girls who have a harsh face, The very pretty women are always with skinny guys who dress well, and the bigger women are alone. Guess what the bigger women do at home... They log into their adultfriendfinder account.

-Actually it should be negative. FAKENESS all over. Here's the deal: when you get emails that a person is interested, she (or whoever)refers you to a web site where you have to pay money for. So they get a commission then.

I don't know if AFF even posts the fake-a-rooney pics. There could be just a handful of people that gather random girl pics (average to hot, maybe even less) & have standard profiles & email responses & responses to responses. It could be very automated. I've seen many duplicate profiles & emails with different pics. The fake profiles & emails can be spotted as being too obvious & such, but there also ones that seem genuine. I've seen pics there from magazines & some pics in different urban areas.

It's too bad there's not a test to check if people are who they represent on the pic & if their intention is to meet a guy. It's misrepresentation & deceitful.

Oh yeah, Go Libertarians! The Dems & Pubs are full of shit. No more socialism!

I'm giving Adultfrindfinder 3 stars because of the concept of the site, and the fact they update the user interface from time to time. Also, I haven't had any problems with their billing, and when I've asked for a refund they gave it to me.

If the site didn't load so damn slow I would give them another star. As for the 5th star they'll never get that because of the lopsided user ratio; that's something they'll never change because I'm sure a lot of women wouldn't join AFF out of fear of feeling slutty.

As for me I'm in my late 20's, good looking, decently hung at almost 8", in good physical shape, and I'm white but my tan makes me look like a white/latino mix. The only drawback I have is that I'm 5'-8".

I've had a bit of luck on that site, but at first I took some hard knocks because I didn't know how to sell myself. My secret was to email either women with no pics and take a chance or to go after women who had vague profiles and a few pics. After a few emails I would convince them to send me a pic, and If they didn't I was sure that they were probably ugly.

I stayed away from the veteran women on that site; even though sometime they would contact me. I figured that when the veteran women on AFF contacted me they just wanted an ego boost, and I was right!

AFF has an allure that keeps me coming to them. I must admit it's fun because of the sexual theme, and the attention I get from women on AFF is fun as well. So, I've kinda become an attention whore in that way. After a few weeks I become bored with the site; by that time I have at least 2 phone numbers. The women I usually met on AFF were a 6-7 on a scale of 1 to 10, and all of these women have been in their early 20's. In the end, I usually dump these women because the "R" word always comes into the picture.

I know most guys come away from AFF empty handed, and they're frustrated as hell. AFF is a hard site to use if you're a guy, but if you're a woman who's at least a 5 you'll do well on AFF. That's the way internet dating is... a woman who can't get any while out in public all of a sudden becomes a goddess on any of these websites. Any time she has a whim for a guy, she's right in front of that computer logging into some site. All the cock coming her way, what's a girl to do????

Good luck to all of you and I hope all who reads this review has a happy sex life.

I am from NYC and had a date with that guy called Random who was ragging on other people who wrote reviews about all those other ripoff OD websites. He is a stalker loser creep like they have said. He may be having problems dealing with his latent homosexuality, so he is taking it out on other people to build up his masculinity, or lack of it. Who gives a damn anyway? However, out of all the OD websites, I think the right one for Random is Friend Finder. It should be called Fiend Finder, and Random is a Fiend that needs to be found by the creeps on Adult Friend Finder. AFF pulls out all the stops in ripping folks off. People like Random (I could tell you his real name, but not now unless he acts up on me) are what you find there....Random Stalkers, or even worse. For him and his kind it is 5 stars, for everybody else it is -5 stars.

Online dating is bad in general for any decent male. Decent males do far better offline. Friend Finder is the old original website that taught the other websites how to scam people. Their methods of scamming are so good that the website has survived all these years while others have dried up and blown away. THERE IS A LOSER BORN EVER MINUTE THAT WILL GIVE THEIR MONEY TO FRIEND FINDER. Admittedly, I did it one time, but I learned my lessons and decided to quit the loser way of finding a mate. I actually blew far more money on websites that wre far more productive than Friend Finder. One of those was Matchmaker, years ago before they became more like Friend Finder. Go to a public campsite on a friday afternoon to find women who have shown up for the weekend. Things like THAT are far better than going online. You at least get out and have some exercise. Buy a motorcycle and go touring and attend some rallies. WHATEVER.

I NEVER went on a single date with a woman from Friend Finder, but numerous dates from Matchmaker. The whole Friend Finder successful business strategy is about bilking gullible males. I was gullible at one time. Friend Finder was the first dating website I joined. There will always be a few first timers to be bilked by Friend Finder. Seasoned online daters will browse a website and get a feel for it before committing to money investment. WORSE than that is the time investment and dating expense investment that is wasted by males in online dating.

If I were an attractive female, I would go online while dating offline in the hopes I could land a guy that was ordinarily way above my league. It happens, and the women who are already dating offline take ZERO RISK in improving their fortune this way. If you are a guy that wants a woman BELOW your league for sex on the side, then by all means go online and bang some wench that is below your league. Both of you are losing nothing in the bargain that you did not already have. It's probably NOT going to work out as a relationship, but you both can have some fun on the side. Everybody had a public life, a private life, and a secret life. Online dating is about providing an outlet for the SECRET LIFE. BUT, Friend Finder is not the place for that if you are a male. Go to Match.com and date women who are a bit below your league in offline dating as they are cherry picking and looking for guys a bit above their league. That way you actually have some women to pick from. You can be provided with a secondary sexual life while you are looking for a truly compatible woman in the offline world. Let the women cherry pick all they want. Try to change that, and you are down to virtually zero women to date for sexual pleasures. Keep internet dating out of your public and private life, and it can be a tool for your secret life.

Just be sure to stay away from Friend Finder as even a tool for enhancing only your secret life. Match.com and a few of the other BIGGEST websites will be your only reasonable dating venues, and mainly for secret life contacts. REMEMBER, if you are a male, you will have to date BELOW your offline league since the female memberships are 3:1 against you, or even worse in many cases. They are often desperate enough to make good sexual outlets on the side. Some women are actually physically attractive except for their severe emotional and personal issues. Don't get deeply involved and it doesn't have to be a big problem for you. Be willing to walk on by, or do not walk in at all. Don't give the sites too much thought, as they either work for you or they do not. Move on if a site does not work for you. No more than a 90 day trial period for even the largest websites. If it's not working by then, it will not work at all.

Just want to use one word to describe FriendFinder and all of its profiles - FAKER.

Most of their profiles are FAKE - Do not waste your time and money on this website.

Lets look at the facts:

Notice how USA profiles often spell words with English spelling, and vice-versa. eg Color / Colour etc.

Look at Chinese or Russian profiles - wow!! hardly any spelling mistakes except the laughably purposeful ones that Friendfinder staff insert half way through the profile.

Now log onto the chat rooms - the female profiles you find chatting are stooges. Look up their profile see where they are supposed to be from then go back to chat and ask them anything about their home town. They wont know anything about where they live. Hmmmmm

The biggest givaway perhaps, is that just before your subscription runs out you suddenly will recieve a load of messages where you had NONE for the previous month.

Now check your credit card - you will have been billed triple sums which you did not authorise. At this point the only thing to do is CANCEL YOUR CARD. If not they will keep debiting you to the end of time, even if you chose non-recurring billing.

Having cancelled your card now register again under a different email and view the few profiles you will be allowed to before a fresh demand for credit card details. Quelle surprise - totally new profiles.

Do not waste your money.

STAY AWAY from The Friend Finder Group. I've been on and off the FF sites for years and I've become very tired of it. Not worth it!

I found the way this site succeeds in making money is by hiding behind the numbers of profiles on it's AFF site. FF uses the Vast number of profiles and men's need for visual stimulation to sign up paying members. I'm sure many of the men who pay for their AFF suscription are just curious as to what's behind the profiles, since AFF won't let standard members view profiles.

The email address phishers have become even more clever, now they're using pictures of fat girls. Others are using profiles with no photo, then they'll ask for you to contact them at their regular email address. Another phisher actually contacted me via an account named "deletableaccount01". I figured this phisher must be a little frustrated.

The thing that makes me sick about AFF is the Attitude of some of the women. I read one profile of a woman who said she is superior to any man in every way. In another profile I saw on AFF this woman had a demanding contract that you must sign before she would allow you to sleep with her. Many of these women on AFF are already stupid and immature, or just lack any coheirent control of their sex drive, some are just extremely in another planet, then the 1 out of 50 chumps send these women emails that are in the context of kissing these womens asses... Kaboom someone who has never had any self esteem all of a sudden has too much and they can't control themselves. It's like a two trains with nitrogen fill boxcars colliding at 45mph... It's a F*in wreck of epic proportions. You'll realize that only an Idoit will pay patronage to these insane fugs.

Do yourself a favor and stay away.

My sum of Adult Friend Finder is that it's like going to a party with 100 in attendance and there anly being 2 or 3 women in the crowd. Then half of the men they become gay.

After about 10 days of emailing with a Russian lady who I thought sincere, I happened to notice she had a bunch of profiles on the site. I brought it to FFF's attention with the request they tell me if there was a scam going on and explained that I was emailing with her. I was basically told that it wasn't my business and they couldn't release that info.

Are we all aware of the proliferation of scams that go on with these sites, particularly the ones that attract foreign women? These people don't give a damn. They do whatever's good for business. I maintain it is my/your business to know about such things and that they are watching peoples' backs.

[I asked the Russian woman about the multiple profiles but she never answered the question.]

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A few rules to follow if you're an adultfriendfinder user.

1. Do not sign up to AFF if you live in a small town. AFF only works for people who live in large cities. The member ratio is horrible. There are 50 men to 1 woman on this site. The other thing to watch are the fake female profiles.

2. Use a disposable email address with AFF. Once you cancel your membership FF network will sell your email address to spammers.

3. As a male user you will have a lot of success if you're toned and in shape. You must use decent quality self pics on this site. C0ck pics work fine on this site but your reproductive member needs to be at least 7 inches long. If you don't use a picture you will be S.O.L..

4. This site attracts many pre-menopausal women who are freshly divorced, then you have chunky girls in the early 20's range to choose from on this site, finally there are quite a few women in their late 30's on this site. The worst part is most of the attractive, younger women on AFF are looking for another woman. The quality of the women on AFF isn't that great.

5. Beware of the attention wh0res on AFF. These women will send you a wink, then you'll send them an email, but you will never recieve a reply email back from them.

6. As a strait guy on AFF, you will recieve winks and emails from Gay guys. You can use the cupid filters on this website to remedy this problem. Also, it helps to write in your profile that attention from Gay men is unwelcome.

7. The usual fake female profile consists of 1 or 2 High quality model pictures adhered to the profile. Along with text that usually consists of the fake user bragging about how much of a nympho she is.

8. You will recieve a lot of attention on AFF if you're an active free member. Keep in mind that a free member can reply to emails that were sent to them. Also, free member can view profiles if their profile has a lot of recent views. However, exposing your free profile is time consuming. If you're going to become a member of AFF it's worth it to pay for a Gold Membership. This way you will recieve a lot more exposeure on this site. If you pay for a Silver Membership with AFF your profile will become lost in the crowd.

9. Be careful if your looking to hook up with a Girl in her early 20's that belongs to AFF. Each one of these girls I have met on AFF has some sort of emotional issue. For some reason this rule doesn't apply to Black Girls.

10. Keep in mind that this website was created for swingers.

That's my take of it. The only reason I used AFF is because I never had time to leave the house and meet a woman. Otherwise, I had mucho more luck with AFF than a site like match.com. This is because the women on AFF aren't looking for 'A knight in shining Armor', they're just looking for sex appeal and a good time. Still, you're just better off hitting the streets than using the NET.