Reviews of eHarmony

Don't do it. Waste of your time, money, and effort. I am only half way through my 6 month "membership" and I haven't met a real true match. I will admit though I have talked to 3 girls since on here, and yes only 3 girls out of 7 matches a day for three months. All three seemed sweet. However, the ones that I was really interested in that seemed cool through their pictures and profiles have yet to respond do anything. Which goes to show, that 90% or so of the people on there are no longer on there, have only signed up for a free weekend, or have had friends sign them up. None of them are serious to be on the eHarmony site and none of them are really on there to meet someone. The ones that I was able to communicate were only on there to meet new people, and when it came to the point that you were willing to meet they dropped you like a bad habit and closed your profile from any future conversations.

So where is the -5 star at?

That this site sucks, and since it's the most expensive one I've found on the net so far, it REALLY sucks. Be warned they send you an enormous amount of so called "matches" that are so far from matching it's ridiculous. I get matches that are much too far away, way to different when it comes to backgrounds and interests - nowhere near my own... how could anything be this bad? It's absolutely amazing if you haven't already wasted your money.. Don't, just a suggestion... warning.... “Danger, Will Robinson!”.. Rip-ff ahead!

This site is a waste of time and expensive. Save your money. I had very few matches and ones that I responded to never responded back. I don't believe these men exist actually.

I read several reviews/complaints about trying to get your money back. It seems pretty hopeless but will try nevertheless. Do NOT use this dating site.

I am disgusted.another wad of my money gobbled up by money hungry people in cyber space. I am an attractive and successful , interesting woman and have had not one 'match' and there have been a number, get in touch with me...EHARMONY in my opinion is a money making scam!

This is one of many personals sites my dear husband has been kicked off of over the past two years for lying about his marital status and stalking. They didn't catch him, I did, and I have no way of knowing how many other singles sites he's registered on. I met him on yahoo personals 6 years ago and everything in his profile was a lie, including his marital status. for 9 months I dated a married man, he quietly divorced and later married me. I found out two years into the marriage that I had been a part of an adulterous relationship. Not only was his online profile a lie, but he was convicted of abuse of a previous spouse and abused my family as well, all while maintaining a personals ad looking for his next victim. I am sure this site is doing ALMOST everything it can to keep predators like him off their site, but there are other safeguards that can be put into place and ultimately online dating on any site is just not safe. We are still legally married, I have a restraining order against him, I carry a handgun to protect me and my children from him and he still regularly registers on dating sites looking for YOU. They do not check to see if you are married, they don't look to see if you are convicted of violent crime and if you register under another name/email address there is no way to tell if you've been kicked off the site before for violating their terms of service. Go out in the real world and find the love of your life. This way just isn't safe.

I have tried many times to login never works my pass word wouldn't work so asked for new one couldn't get in still wouldn't come up like it said also when i did get email couldn't get of all dating sites yours is the worse want out and will tell others how I didn;t get help like others I hate this site if you can't get help what good are you plenty of fish is alot easier then your site I would like my money back but I'm sure all your good for is taking our money

Horrible. I've given this a few shots and it never worked out. Mainly because the majority of the matches I got never responded. I decided to leave but even after canceling my account I was getting matches. It was a hassle to go in & figure out how to get everything to stop. I realized then that this is probably why everyone has a hard time getting responses, most of the matches probably aren't members anymore. I think if Eharmony kept it to paid members only, maybe the experience would be better. On a side note, an older woman I work with became a widow recently, she went on this site & met another very nice older gentleman and they are now married. So I guess there are success stories but not for me.

I have attempted to use E harmony several times over the past few years. I agree with many of the comments posted by others. As I get older, even though I"m active and have many younger friends, there are very few matches. Actually there were very few matches period. I met several people and I could never figure out why I would be matched with them. There is nothing scientific about their process that I can discern. I think match.com is probably better overall. Don't waste your money.

I'm so glad to know that I'm not alone in this! I truly feel ripped-off! I wish I could give it zero stars because it's terrible. Every day I wake up to seven new "highly compatible matches," and out of those, there are maybe a few I'm interested in, so I send them a little something, and get nothing in return! Right now I have 12 matches, and I'm getting nothing from any of them. There are even a couple of guys on there that were on 2 years ago when I was on! I guess I should have learned my lesson then. I'm not a bad-looking girl, I'm fairly interesting, educated, literate...so I'm not understanding how I'm not getting even one response. I'm going to cancel my subscription and hope to bump into my soulmate on the street somewhere, I guess. I'm so glad I read everyone else's reviews, because I truly thought maybe there was something heinously wrong with me.

I met mostly compatible women on eHarmony. Unfortunately, they do not screen for psychos and I met a few. One was a former prostitute who "heard dogs bark when demons were close by." Another had, as a teenager, been "with some kids who got drunk when a slasher showed up after they passed out and stabbed everyone but her! Another was a woman who had lost her short-term memory, like in the movie Memento. I also met some really nice chicks. I think they would have a great thing going if they would screen for psychopaths, sociopaths, schizophrenics, etc.