Reviews of Friend Finder

First of all... Don't fall for the ads that feature model hot chicks near you. These are all made up profiles. AFF's ad banner takes you IP address, finds your loaction, then tailors these ads to you. These profiles DO NOT exist.

According to the profile searches there are 10 men to every 1 woman. Only 1 in 4 of these profiles are active. Maybe half of the profiles are fake. It's pretty obvious when you see a profile, based in a town that doesn't exsist, 1 picture of a model hot woman, and she talks about getting married.

On Aff there are just as many women looking for women (lesbian) as there are women looking for men. Most of the women on Aff are in the late 30's to late 40's. The number drops off for women who are in their 50's. A pretty good number of these women are nasty. It must feel pretty good for these women to be so popular on the internet, but if they went to the bar they wouldn't get laid.

If you're willing to drastically lower your standards then you might have a chance of getting laid.

This site is really a gay haven. There are so many gay men on Aff that it's unreal. If you're bisexual then you might have a shot at getting laid but it would be with another dude. I would always get an email from some guy saying: "I know you're straight but have you ever let a guy suck you off. I do it better than a woman." That's about the only emails I would get.

The one thing that made me really mad is some of these guys and crossdressers would send an email accusing me of viewing their profile... when I never did. I think this site makes a fake attempt to expose profiles and lead people to believe another member is interested.

If you're gay or you'e a woman then you might get laid right away. I guess that depends on if you're good looking. If you're a straight guy then it isn't happening. Aff is a waste of time, effort, money etc. It's a classic example of... If it sounds too good to be true then it probably is.

AFF is pitiful! Save your money. 99% of the profiles are fake and you get SPAMM'ed every day all day long. Reporting to AFF is useless too. They send a form email that they're taking care of the problem, but obviously don't.
Go AM or even CL. Probably full of fakes too, but cost a whole lot less.

hi frienz..
well .. i was a free member long back and then when nothing striked .. left AFF , now tried again to join back and revive ma old account , n to my dismay i find that the preveliges of free members have been clipped a lot ..
i am lil skeptical about buying membership, coz as per the reports sighted by me, the scoring rate in india (mumbai) is very poor.

so guys if any one of u have been lucky .. plz raise my hopes.
n u ladies if u reading this mail .plz check me out on my id Handsyshippy , i am a young captain .

ciao dear
ave a nice day

yes there are a lot of fake profiles on AFF. But there are a lot of genuine ones on there as well.Ive been in it 8 years and have met a lot of women on there and had some dam good sex. also you will find most of the genuine ones in the groups on there also a lot of these groups arrange social events so you can meet up and have a drink.For every woman prob about 20-30 men. so the ladies can be very picky in who they choose.Alot og the guys have no manners no respect and just total pigs.Who this a one line messgage say fancy a fuck will get them laid.also they look shit in there photos and they are well out of date. write a decent profile get decet recent pics up.If a woman says not intrested. dont get alll huffy or nasty she not intrested and does not have to give a reason. if you cant handle that then you not a decent bloke.

I've been on and off that site for the last 9 years. I discovered it while looking at porn in 2002. The only real reason I come back is the porn aspect of the site. I like looking at common women over models. I'll get directly to the points.

If you're straight, you might get laid if you're hung, have a nice body, and you're willing to lower your standards. Being +35yo helps a lot. There are too many guys in there 20's on that site.

The stats say there's 1 woman to 10 guys. However, there are a great deal of spammers on that site posing as women. These spammers are trying to get you to another porn or dating site.

Most of the profiles on the site are inactive and forgotton.

Pretty much every woman on there is Bisexual or Bicurious. There are more real women on there that are looking for another lezbo rather than a guy.

There's a ton of guys on there who are in the closet. They claim they're looking for a woman but they're also interested in a man. I always got emails from guys who wanted to play with my pecker.

***If you're a married woman and you found out your husband is on the site there's a good chance he's in the closet. Go and get tested for AIDS***

If you cancel the service, they still may charge you. Make sure your billing is set to "OFF" before you cancel. Despite what they say, they don't delete your account right away.

I didn't have much luck on the site until I got into my early 30's. There are many reasons for this. There are too many guys in their 20's. Women are looking for someone more experienced.

Most of the women on that site are 38-45yo.

Most women do not want to be caught dead on that site. Any normal women would be ashamed of just being there. In the facebook era, if someone found out the news would spread rather quickly. This is why most of the women on there are openly BiSexual or they are just freaks.

There are some gay men on there posing as women. Don't give out your phone number until you're sure it's a woman.

Some of the women are emotionally unstable. I met this one woman in real life who wanted me to commit to her during the second time we met. She wanted to view my profile and check my emails. Now, this girl had a bunch of pic and videos of herself getting bannged by other guys. I walked out on her.

there aren't very many people who are on the site who live in a small town. This site works best for people who live in a large city. People really don't want to drive more than 10 miles to get laid. If you don't live in a major city then you won't have any luck.

There are quite a few women on there who are looking for a "smoke buddy" or a supplier.

There's an underground network of swingers on that site. I found out they hold secret sex parties. Many of the single women on that site are part of these clubs and some of them are looking for a guy to take along with them to these secret parties.

I think I covered pretty much every aspect of that site. They are pretty honest for a sex site, they don't send you fake emails like the smaller sites do. You will get fake emails on adultfriendfinder but there are from outside sites Usually trying to lure you to one of these smaller and bogus sex sites.

Hello how are you doing today?well i just want you to know that my name is Tina single and looking for a relationship am very new to the internet and also to this dating site and i will like to know more about you if you also like to meet me you can write me back here so that i can send you my picture tinakelly65@gmail.com i hope to read from you soon
thanks

a complete joke.this site does not even let you send filrts nor read profiles unless you pay!i stayed with this site for only 1 hour and canceled my membership!this site is nothing but mostly married women and lesbians.you could do a lot better!if you are hetro or straight stay far away from this site!

This is a response to the fellow writing about the African girl from Ohio. I've talked with many African women online over the past 15 years or so. They're lovely and sweet most of the time, but be careful. Some genuinely want the man of their dreams, and of course that man is white and lives in the old USA! I talked for years to girls I meet on date sites, etc. They never asked for money or had emergencies that required money. I think they mostly just wanted to get the hell out of where they were, even though when I asked about that they said they lived in wonderfull places where the health care, etc is as good as the US. They were very sweet and loving in their emails, but I never got the chance to meet them in real. I just didn't want the trouble of the marriage application, going to African a couple times, etc. etc.

What you discribed is very normal, and the use of English very typical of Africans. She may be real, it may be a marriage deal, or it may be a drug you once she gets in touch with you and steal your passport and liver. A US passport is worth about 10000USD on the black market in Nepal for example.

i want some opinions on my story because i dont know how to digest whats happening to me. i signed up for friend finder, not adult friendfinder. a pretty girl messaged me, i didnt buy any membership at all, she messaged me and then gave me her yahoo. she said from her profile that she lived in the same state as me. the first thing she said in yahoo was i live in africa for school but will be back in your stat ein 2 weeks. so immediately i said ok what scam is this, i said do you want money or something. and she said no what are u talking about i said ok before we talk anymore you have to get on cam for me or make a sign pic proving your the girl in these pictures. what was amazing is she got on cam for me instantly and showed she was real. but the way she types theres no way she can be in college with her words im pretty sure she never was in america. i cant figure out what the scheme is here, she could be real, she could be coming back here, but that doesnt explain the odd way she types. its not neccesarily wrong, but its not normal. she hasnt asked me for any type of money and this is almost the 5th day now. she hasnt asked me for anything at all but keeps saying she likes me alot. has anyone had something similar like this? if so what was the outcome? im very cautious talking to people online anyways worst comes to worst i just block them. part of me thinks she might live in another country and is looking to meet a guy so she can come to america and get married for a way to get out of her country.

To justme in Ohio: I have these comments:

1 - The fact that she (he?) did not hit you up for money immediately proves nothing. Part of scammer's methods is to build up confidence by NOT asking for anything at first. But after a period, they have an "emergency"....usually health, hospital, legal problem and THEN (when your guard is down) they tell you that they must have some money wire transferred or they will die, go to jail, etc.

2 - She "lives in Ohio" and goes to school in Africa? Huh? I live in Ohio and have never heard, let alone know, anyone who has. Have you? It's theoretically possible, but come on..

3 - Ask her who she voted for Governor of Ohio last month. Ask her how she thinks the Buckeyes will do this year. Ask her what city in Ohio she is from; in the (unlikely) event she can name one, follow up with a question about Joey Votto, Lebron James, the Cleveland Clinic, the new casinos being built, Kings Island, Lake Erie, etc. Hey, a college girl from Ohio could talk about at least some of them. I bet you get silence.

4 - Speaking of talk, have you had a voice conversation with her? It would be worth the cost of a one minute call to Botswana or wherever she is to hear her "Ohio" accent. Should be good for laughs.

Let us know how it turns out.