Firstly i would say no dating site can guarantee finding your perfect match. Think its about timing and luck. Went into this open minded and at least hoped to have a few dates. Firstly paid more than i would have if i had known there was a basic and premium option i would have chose the basic. Only found this out when i paid for the premium. When i complained to eharmony they told me they give you the options. Which was rubbish as when i had finished the questionaire the premium prices were the only option which came up. Thought a site like eharmony would cut out all the time wasters and as i suspect guys that are already with someone. I got matches most days and yes lived in the areas that i chose, but as i,ve read lots of times on eharmonys reviews i think most of them either had not signed up or were old members who wer.nt on anymore. In six months i had two dates. The first i really liked turned out to only be after sex and not a relationship. He should have gone on pof. The second was a really nice guy but there was no spark but still had a nice a time meeting him. Chatted to a few others and as soon as it was mentioned about meeting up they vanished.. Glad my membership has ended as it has,nt been fun like i hoped it would be.