I have read so many complaints from the men on the site, now this is a complaint from a woman on the site.

First of all, I get several messages a day and plenty of instant messaging which I answer most of the time.

The men are all looking for the same thing: booty call. They lie on their profiles and say they want a good lady, an honest lady, a lady with no drama, blah, blah, blah...and what do I get? Indecent proposals! Married men that make no bones about it looking for "romance," married men that cheat on their wives and tell you she is going through menopause and instead of understanding her health, they want a young chickie full of estrogen that can give them a good grip.

Next, you have the perverts. All they talk about is digusting sexual acts and it takes them either 2 messages or one minute of instant messaging before they ask "what are you looking for?" and then they start with sexual innuendos and sometimes are just downright blunt about what they "are looking for." It is not pretty at all. I am insulted. They seem to think that every woman on the site is a whore and is looking for sex - not true.

And then there are a few sweet guys, I will admit, but the poor souls have nothing in common with me. They do not drive, they are unemployed and have no means of even taking a girl to McDonald's. And then there are the young ones looking for someone 20 years their senior because they are more experienced in the bedroom? Insulting to me and any decent woman

And to you guys dissing us females, let me tell you something. We aren't all bad, we aren't all gold diggers, we aren't all head cases and a lot of us are looking for love, sincerity, respect and kindness. I know I am. I am sure I can be on that site 20 years if I live and find NOTHING BUT LOSERS.

Let's not forget the snobs too. If they are good looking, they want Angellina Jolie. Well, boys, hate to tell you, but you aren't in the real world. I want Tom Cruise and don't think there is one out there either.

Good luck babies! You are going to need it with this cesspool of dating disasters.