ladies and gentlemen , true.com is a great dating site this is coming from a guy who has used several dating sites wasting money , yes i have been scammed once before on a dating site called singlesnet.com but they didn't have all the great features like true does , if you read the terms of use before you sign up you will know what you are getting yourself into a head of time , true screens members against a U.S criminal database before they are allow to communicate with other members and true doesn't allow married or separated people to join their site , other dating sites don't screen any of their members at all and as far as the price for the memberships , the memberships are high not only making them money but to keep all the weirdos away some people are being stalked on these dating sites , if i had to take a chance with a dating sites it would be true.com i have met a few of my girl friends on true.com , sometimes you have to take a chance on something i mean we spend more than that on bills , cars , clothes , shoes , food , houses and other things but , now when its something important like finding someone to spend the rest of our life with we decide to be cheap , my advice to all of you when you are signing up for online dating sites don't a be a fool and use your real credit card linked to your bank account , that's a real jack ass move right there i never ever used a real credit card for anything online i have always used a prepaid credit card , they are better and affordable if you don't know which to use you can try netspend they carry them at any check cashing place they are $9.95 they charge $2 to load it and take off a $1 each time you use it , you can try the ice card its blue card it cost $3.95 if i'm not mistaken but go to www.icenow.com or call 1-877-ICE-ICE4 they charge you $2 to load the card and they charge $4.95 a month for the use of the card , its a like a real credit card with a very low monthly payment they take the $5 off the card they don't bill you at all , so just make sure you put enough money on the card i made the mistake of putting less money on the card , and i was short on paying my bill but that was my fault the card maximum limit is $10,000 if i were you i would get the ice card and you will be fine , good luck to all of you i hope that was helpful