I had the worst experiences of my life with this dating site. I met a scammer from Nigeria who needed $700.00 to leave the country. I met a woman in another state who turned out to be emotionally unstable and not ready for another relationship especially while going through a divorce. That was my mistake as well. I don't mind the internet dating thing but I wish there were one that has a screening process....anyway do not for any reason use match.com and if hell freezes over some of those people will need snow shoes!!!