DO NOT, I repeat, do not waste your money on eHarmony.
They woo you into believing their site works and that they have numerous subscribers in their database by sending you multiple matches every day during the first 2-3 weeks of membership. BUT as soon as you subscribe to the service and pay your money, they have already exhausted matches who exist in their database so there aren't any more matches to send to you. You wait days, even more than a week, before you receive a new match. Of course, when you receive a match, there is no photo and more likely than not, the match is not even a subscriber, hence there will be no communication. All of your efforts are wasted.

Why should anybody pay money to be matched to people who are not subscribers?
Why should anybody pay money for a service that cannot provide matches based on reasonable matching settings?
Why should anybody pay money for a dating service that does not work.

If you want to spend your hard earned money on a site that works, go to match.com. It's fun, you can search their database and it is much more interactive. Yes, you can still end up meeting someone who is not a good match for you BUT at least you get to have a meeting.

And, no I am not an employee of match.com. I am a satisfied subscriber to match.com.

I hope this helps.