Forgot to mention: do you get matches without responses? It happened to me at match.com - your matches are people that filled a profile but never paid for the service, or are not using this site for years, yet the site keeps their profiles as if they are active members to attract you to pay.

I used match.com for one month (the same scam as in eHarmony) only to find out that I'm communicating with ghost profiles. I have added to my profile that I'm not really there.

What can I do? plenty of fish is extremely shallow yet it's better that all of these sites that treat you like shit.