I went out with a man calling himself Javajunkie_iso. The first date he wanted to go back to his place red flag #1. Red flag #2 he was asking questions about his profile what I liked and didn't like. I gave him the benefit of the doubt and went on a coffee date. Met him at Starbucks had a nice time but red flag #3 stated he was getting more hits on his new updated profile. Red flag #4He also had to see his daughter in Bishop because his ex's car was on the blink. Red flag #5 on the way out the door his "ex" said HI he said bye to me made a lame excuse and went back inside. I was left there at the door feeling like an idiot. I called him on this and he became angry and indignant.
Match.com and a couple of other dating sites are a joke. The men use the sites to keep a steady stream of women.