Horrible. I've given this a few shots and it never worked out. Mainly because the majority of the matches I got never responded. I decided to leave but even after canceling my account I was getting matches. It was a hassle to go in & figure out how to get everything to stop. I realized then that this is probably why everyone has a hard time getting responses, most of the matches probably aren't members anymore. I think if Eharmony kept it to paid members only, maybe the experience would be better. On a side note, an older woman I work with became a widow recently, she went on this site & met another very nice older gentleman and they are now married. So I guess there are success stories but not for me.