I have attempted to use E harmony several times over the past few years. I agree with many of the comments posted by others. As I get older, even though I"m active and have many younger friends, there are very few matches. Actually there were very few matches period. I met several people and I could never figure out why I would be matched with them. There is nothing scientific about their process that I can discern. I think match.com is probably better overall. Don't waste your money.