I'm so glad to know that I'm not alone in this! I truly feel ripped-off! I wish I could give it zero stars because it's terrible. Every day I wake up to seven new "highly compatible matches," and out of those, there are maybe a few I'm interested in, so I send them a little something, and get nothing in return! Right now I have 12 matches, and I'm getting nothing from any of them. There are even a couple of guys on there that were on 2 years ago when I was on! I guess I should have learned my lesson then. I'm not a bad-looking girl, I'm fairly interesting, educated, literate...so I'm not understanding how I'm not getting even one response. I'm going to cancel my subscription and hope to bump into my soulmate on the street somewhere, I guess. I'm so glad I read everyone else's reviews, because I truly thought maybe there was something heinously wrong with me.