It's a scam and their ads are misleading. Of the thousands who apply for membership, how many success stories do you see advertised on TV?... a half dozen, if that. They send you the opposite of what you request. If you say you don't have/want children, they match you up with someone who says, "My children are the most important thing in my life and come with the package." If you say you are "spiritual but not religious" they match you up with someone who attends a church of their preferred denomination and "must have" the same. If you say you are not athletic they match you up with someone who "must have" someone who works out at the gym alongside them. If you say you like to travel they match you up with someone who doesn't like the same... and the list goes on.