The strange thing about eHarmony is that it's set up for rejection. I am intelligent,attractive and interesting, although older (but generally taken for late 40s, early 50s).I've tried it twice. Every the time I logged on, I would discover that a good percentage of the 50-something and 60-something guys who were recommended for me had "closed" the communication, before I even got to look at their profiles! I found it a very depressing site to use - so never again.