I see that alot of people give bad reviews. Well I guess i can atleast leave a great one. I was a member for a year, and even though i did not meet the love of my life, i wouldnt give any of the blame to the site. Yes there are alot of bogus profiles and inactive profiles but, this is online dating people. Its going to happen. I had a decent amount of dates out of the site, and some of those men are still fabulous friends of mine. i think eharmony has a great agenda in mind, just dont fret over the petty stuff, be persistent, and im sure you can find someone!!