Damn GB. That was one effed up story. But in my brief experience with it, I think that ALL e-dating is catered to relationship failure with VERY FEW exceptions. The odds are definitely not in your favor whether you're male or female and regardless of the odds because generally, people just aren't what what they appear to be and they plan it that way... and if you enter a relationship with falsehoods, how can you possibly expect it to come out truthfully?! It's like adding 6 + 7 and expecting it come out to "2". That's why the internet is compared to "virtual" reality instead of just plain "reality".

I'm done with the whole process. As "eligible" as I've been told I am, I'd rather end up as an old single playa in a nursing home mackin' all the senior ladies or become a sugar daddy than try internet dating again looking for "the one". It's a huge waste of time and money... not to mention a self-esteem drainer "if" you allow yourself to get caught up into it. As many looks and smiles as I get from women just being out and about, I think I can do better with ANY of them than I can with ANY one I meet online. All I have to do is become less busy with my work to "focus" and I'll be just fine.

So good luck to you and next time, like the song says... "take your time and do it right". Because it's not the quaNTity of time, it's the quaLIty of time spent that makes life and relationships special. Peace.