I am only giving e-harmony 2 stars because I thought that compared to other dating websites it was an easy format. However, I had the most HORRIBLE experience. It was NOT their fault, however, let it be a reminder that everyone lies.

In March 2009 I met my husband on E-harmony. His profile stated he wanted kids, was never married, and his profile spoke of family, honesty, humility, etc.etc.

I got caught up and believed more than I should have, always remember his fabulous profile was in the back of my mind. I should have seen the red flags and acted on them but I think, and it was my own fault, I kept seeing that profile and thinking that was the man he really was.

We got married, so we get get started on a family. It was soon but we are both in our late 30"s and I thought we were both committed. Also, apparently because he needed a green card-something that came out later as well. As time went on the lies came out more and more. I was actually his fourth wife, he didn't want kids until a few years (after his green card). It turned out that he is not even eligible under current law to get a green card. During our entire marriage/dating he was on ashleymadison.com, myspace, craigslist, and a lot of other "dating" websites. He was posting personal ad's for sex and having all of these responses go to a secret e-mail. I found it all out a few weeks ago and I kicked him out and praying for an annulment. Also, as a side note I had run a background check on him. Most background checks only pick up past residences, lawsuits, and criminal activity. He did not, he just likes to marry women, lie to them, and have affairs.

Today, I found out that 6 days after we separated, on April 15th 2010, he actually re-signed up for e-harmony. I contacted e-harmony but I don't think they really care, and they won't give me any information any way.

Just wanted others to learn from my mistake. Really check out the person you go out with, don't be swayed by anything they said on profile because it may be a huge lie, date for a long time-the truth is always revealed.