The only reason I'm giving e-Harmony 2 stars is because it's really no better or worse than any other dating site... just more expensive. And if you're willing and able to spend your hard earned money on what's nothing more than a hope and a prayer, then that's ON YOU. I wouldn't tell anyone not to spend their money on e-Harmony just like I wouldn't tell them to play the lottery. Because trying to find the "perfect" mate on e-Harmony... or on ANY dating site for that matter... IS like playing the lottery hoping to win with ONE ticket... and that one ticket is YOU.

Furthermore, the entire internet meeting-dating thing is built for failure. Too many people with too many delusions that tell too many lies with the nerve to have too many expectations to receive more than they're willing or "able" to give. People keep looking for stereotypical "perfection" on personal sites... when they SHOULD be looking for someone that's just as screwed up as they are. Because who else than someone who can empathize with YOUR idiosyncrasies can understand you better OR find it easier to love YOU "unconditionally"?! LOL!

There's an old song by Lou Rawls with the lyric, "What's the matter with the world, has the world gone mad? Nothing's wrong with the world... it's the people that's IN IT." Women who are 5'4" and under only wanting men who are 6'0" and over... Average men who ALWAYS been average wanting exceptional, well-rounded women... etc., etc. It's ALL BS... and the biggest lies are those that people tell THEMSELVES.

And so goes e-Harmony and every other internet dating site out there. Of course they're getting rich... because they feed off of the insecurities of people who are out of touch with THEIR OWN reality. You'd be better off trying to meet someone of substance at an event of common interest "in person". Of course, there's no guarantees doing that either... but at least you'll feel "human" because you'll have BE human while you're doing it.