I've been with eHarmony for over a year--659 "matches" so far, and NONE of 'em have matched me yet. eHarmony continues to urge that I post a photo--you get more responses with a photo or two posted. Well, before I posted my photos I was at least getting some responses, "you sound interesting, please send photo," requests from a few men. Unfortunately, men are visual creatures and can only imagine themselves with movie stars on their arms (much younger movie stars, I might add). Once I posted my photos, I never got another response-Haha. My next photo will have to be me with a bag over my head, I guess.
Now that I've read the reviews on this site, I guess that I'll chalk the whole eHarmony thing up to experience and move on. Their 'levels of compatability' are so much hooey--I think that they just throw any new customers at everyone who is still open. Their ads with their "doctor" spokesman sure had me going for a while, though!