I am a member currently and wish that I had gone with my earlier instinct and not signed up. I did this a few years ago and got so few matches and out of those few matches they were pretty far away. Right now, I get the closed matches also, it's not eharmony, the fact is we are meeting real people there and they behave the same as they would behave anywhere else. Eharmony is not some special environment where people suddenly develop a different nature. So you take your chances and I am already tired off it. I will be very amazed if I get even a date out of this I am enrolled for 3 months and so far I am not happy at all with the matches who are often not good matches actually either. Honestly I am human too, the pictures can be off putting. I guess they don't like mine either :). Shame that we have to waste good money like this sometimes. I won't be renewing and they'd better act right.