I just moved to a new state, to a very small town where I don't know anyone yet, but it seems guys are either too old, too young or too married. The only guys I've had hitting on me are like 23, I'm going to be 34 in a few months. A friend of mine had success using a dating site, she met someone in a different state and they ended up getting married after he got a job to be closer to where she lived. So I thought I'd give it a try.

I basically wanted a guy who was in good shape, (I'm not talking about an Adonis, just someone in good enough shape to do active stuff with... like taking long walks, going swimming at the lake, going to the gym... so on)

I'm looking for a guy who preferably has never been married (though I'm ok with divorced if it's a nice guy), someone who doesn't have kids, someone financially and emotionally stable with no criminal background, who is between 31-38 years old. What did I get with e-harmony?

Guys who would be considered morbidly obese with more hair on their backs than on their heads, with 3 kids, and who happens to be 45 years old... though I did get matched with a 19 year old once. It was a bit expensive, and I didn't find anyone I'd actually consider going on one date with after 6 months of looking.