I joined ChristianCafe on the free trial and started browsing for my matches. It seems like they have the same people logged in 24x7 on the website.. and there is NOT many of them. I have spoken to some females which were way below my caliber and they all turned out to be psychos! My advice is: not to join this site. I do not think how anyone could pay $34.99 for a monthly membership just to cycle through the same 30 females who are in their 40's+