In my opinion Eharmony is a scam. 2 weeks before I let my membership expire I get a email from a girl in Florida. A match from Eharmony. Her english was awful, her profile was filled with mis-spelled words, which were the first indicators of potential problems. Well, she turned out to be a male nigerian scam artist posing as a female. I couldn't believe it!! So, where were these "29 dimensions of compatibility" checks that Eharmony is suppose to do and that I paid good money for!! Their checks couldn't even catch a crooked man posing as a woman !! What a joke!! I filed a complaint with Eharmony, no response. The crooks profile remained on their site, even after I reported him. Uhmm, isn't that interesting ? Could it be that they let this guy get through hoping that I would renew my membership after getting a match? I later filed a complaint with the BBB, and Eharmony gave me the standard reason that they're not responsible or can catch all the crooked people that fill out profiles on their site.