The one star is the lowest score allowed. eHarmony is like letting a computer choose your mate. At an age when we no longer allow our parents or other people pick our mates, it is sad that some of us in search of a mate fall prey to this site that only wants your money. I joined paying for three months. I did not get one date or any interes. I am consider at least a 7 and some think I am a 9 or 10 when dressed up. My personality is fairly friendly....nothing from this site. It was a waste of money and a big disappointment. I did not find our until after I joined that the ratio of women to man is astronomical....something like 67 women for every 33 men.

If you have time and money to waste and do not mind being disappointed joined eHarmony.