I tried Match.com and eventually quit it and other dating sites because I simply cannot stomach the online dating scene. I cannot stand the dating scene in general.

Some of the men I met were nice, there was just no mutual chemistry. I have nothing against these men.

But the others were either shallow, phony, rude game players or - opposite extreme - men who pressured you to have a serious relationship with them even though you hardly knew them, or just met them.

I would love to be in a romantic relationship, but I am much happier NOT looking for one; simply because every time I do try to find romance, I always meet those types of men. And sometimes they find me. I would love to have a serious long-term relationship, but I'm just not willing to subject myself to humiliating or tense situations just to find one.

I have decided I'm just going to enjoy life and meet men - and people in general - that way.