I joined over this past Christmas. The $59 fee was pretty pricey, but I figured I'd only do one month and if it didn't work, it didn't work. I got matched with my current boyfriend that day (before I had paid and got to see his pic and stuff). He actually ended up living in my apartment complex, so we tell people we met in the mailroom, not online. (Didn't want anyone to know about eharmony.)

It seems like there's a lot of bad press out here, but it can work out!