I cannot stress being TOTALLY truthful with your answers. I think some of the issues many people face is they meet people who did not answer the questions truthful or and not totally truthful with the people they are paired with.
I was matched with my husband by e-harmony 6 years ago.
He and I are human. So remember faults are NORMAL. You and I have them. He had waited for months on the site to find me.
He waded thru the sea of women who were not truthful. I had a few matches but my husband REALLY stood out. And I really stood out to him. It took me one month. Which amazed me! I began with the attitude of i'd like to meet some nice people and have a few nice dinners and good conversation. I was not looking to remarry it just happened and I was thrilled. I just wish I could have found him 12 years ago! BUT I would not have been the person I am today!
I was totally honest with him and he with me.
All of the creative things I mentioned in my profile were and are totally true. AND he loves it all !
PLEASE remember this is a process (not overnight) and when the time is right and you and the other person is totally truthful. YOU CAN FIND THE RIGHT PERSON!
Several other friends of mine were paired with their husbands thru e-harmony! So believe me TRUTH and e-harmony can help you!