I used Match for about two years and am proud to say I met the man I would later marry on the site. During those two years, I went on roughly 90 first dates, 40 second dates, 20 third dates and had 2 three month relationships before I met the man who became my spouse. Most of the men I met were nice enough, although ultimately but for one, not for me. What I liked about Match was that the member could set up their own matches, there was a large pool of potential in a relatively close geographic area and there were many singles in my age bracket (48-55). I adore my husband and believe that were it not for Match, we would not have met.