I would give less than a star but thats the lowest one available. I never had tried this web site, but many friends suggested it. It is rather difficult to date when you reach a certain age, plus I don't live in a thriving metropolis! Anyway, I checked out the site, it seemed interesting at first. The problem I have with it is that when I searched for matches, I never got any. I changed my profile, my area, almost everything until i just searched the entire country and it still said "we can not find any matches for you at this time" WHAT! I know in the entire United States their has to be 1 man out there that matches me!! Come on!! Then the few matches they sent me were as far as Alaska, and some much older than me (older than what I wanted in my profile) What's up with that? The bottom line is that I paid the money and realized too late its a rip off. It is very different than other internet sites I have been on. But I guess that's my lesson learned. I had to check it out and now I know to tell everybody EHARMONY is a rip off!