ya know...it is what you make of it...I see so many reviews on here about how eharmony is a scam. Matches were sent that were not what you asked for etc... well I have news for you. The world is not perfect, and neither are people. Those of you that have problems with bad matches being sent to you, might need to tweak your profile dimensions. I was getting out of towners, and decided to change my settings to within a certain mile radius. STOP COMPLAINING....they are not magicians, they are matchmakers, and it's up to you to look at a person inside and out before making judgements....and as far as the person who said they were not able to cancel, well you can cancel at any time, get a full refund within 3 days of signing up, after 3 days you have committed. It might be a good idea to read the info before committing. Stop blaming others for the fact that you are still single. At the end of the day, it's not eharmonys fault. If you were having success in real life, you wouldn't have a need to go on their site and look now would you. We all should feel privaledged that there is a service like this out there. 3% of all US marriages are a result of Eharmony, statistics don't lie. stop blaming and start doing something. Eharmony is a lot better than match(hookup).com. Maybe some of you are not open to really getting to know someone outside of what you see in a picture. Pictures are not always the bible of what a person looks like. Take the good with the bad...Look at it this way, at least your meeting and talking to a lot more single men or women then you would be on your own....give it a shot, it's like the lottery, if you don't play, you won't win.