Ahhh, yes...I, too would give 0 stars if I could! e-harmony is a scam with a capital S!!! I've read several reviews here, and for 20 or so negatives, there is 1 positive...and I'll bet those people work for the company!!!! I am a fairly smart, pretty good-looking, outgoing 47yr old woman who, when I DID get responces, got men who were WAY out of my "mileage" and 15-20yrs older than I was!!! Also, having an X who is a raging alcoholic, I made it QUITE clear that I would not tolerate anyone who drinks more than just "occasionally". And guess what? About 1/2 of my "ulimate matches" drank several times a week!!! Then again, if HUMANS instead of COMPUTERS were running the joint, that would have been noticed!!! It cost me $45...lesson learned.