I think the entire site is in one way or another a scam with fake profiles. I too get the winks only to discover the profile is "no longer available"

I also have the widowed man with a 13 yr old son with many, many different profiles and many different states all with different pictures HOWEVER; the verbiage is IDENTICAL. Skirt around every question and if you ask anything legitimate, the profile just disappears!

I had a man write me directly at my personal email and by pass Match. I complained to Match and they told me it was not possible and that I must have given him my email address. I had just joined 9 days before and NO ONE, even in their security department could explain how that happened. They insist I gave him my email. When I asked the profile person where he got my email from, his answer was " I do not think that is important!"

Needless to say, I will not renew my subscription. Also, keep in mind their free 6 months if you do not meet anyone in the first 6 months states that you MUST wink at one of your matches every day.....I get winks my 21 year old men and I am 55.

DO NOT JOIN THIS DATING SITE........IT IS A WASTE OF ALL OUR MONIES!!