Much of the dating in middle age deals with some common sense. Men, don't take it personally. Many women joining Eharmony probably have difficulty in maintaining a relationship or there is a red flag in their package. Those women in their late 30+ has showed disinterest to others before me. The woman's pattern has consistency. Through my 3 months, I stated that I was interested in physically athletic women. For whatever reason(s) I was canned by most of the matches. The few that showed interest, they weren't athletic. My recreation has a high emphasize on participating in sports. I sum up my mental character as a Dr. Laura S. thinker.