I am writing this review in hopes that I can save at least one person from joining and wasting a lot of money. I went in there just before internet dating was a big thing. I was quoted about $5000 and said I can't afford that. She went to talk to a manager and it went down to $2000. I handed over my credit card and i'm probably still paying for it today, years later. I was promised these men all had good jobs and were wonderful. She even was going to select some men for me and call me that evening with their member numbers. She did call and even had a dentist for me. I later saw their member numbers didn't exist. At the time I think she felt my desperation and that was my mistake. What they don't tell you is that you can pick all the men you want but there's no guarantee that any will even agree to talk to you. I would often go there in person to make selections hoping I would meet someone in the waiting room-that never happened. The men who picked me usually were old enough to my father. I did end up having two dates-the first guy was about a foot shorter than his profile the other wasn't interested. So I paid about $1000 per date. I still feel stupid about this!!