I agree with the poster that said the success rate is very low. Actually, it is infintesmal - virtually zero. It is so low, one would be better off searching for a needle in a haystack. Your time would be better spent doing something that tedious and important than totally wasted on Christian Cafe. I have not met one single lady on CC who
is both serious about finding someone to date and has reasonable expectations. Women there expect the guy to be 10 times better looking than they are and have every single one of their other qualities desired, else they shun them. This is not realistic, but nobody has ever told them, I guess.

Another thing is that the ladies on CC.com drill you with questions to find out every detail of your life and then they remember "Oh, I have to go." before mentioning anything about their life. I noticed when IMing ladies on CC they would ignore your questions and press you for answers to theirs. It was like their mission in life was to discover that one thing about you that made you unsuitable for them, and Gaul Darnet they were gonna find it if it took them a hundred years. I met noone there who was looking for a healthy relationship, or even appeared to understand what that is. It was more like ChristianMisfits than ChristianCafe.

I wish I could be more positive but there really isn't anything to be positive about CC unless you really enjoy reading the handwritten prayers of other people. If that's your cup of tea you'll like CCafe. If you are looking for someone that is honest about looking for someone to date then you are totally wasting your time and money at CCafe. It's a dry hole.