so herewith another story about Jdate or really about some of the guys who are there supposedly to find a nice jewish girl.

One evening my lovely flatmate who I call Ms Sunshine (she is a real sunshine, she is a real radiation of goodness :-) told me this story and I thought it is a joke but actually it pure reality of our times.

She went to check out jdate just to look and see if there is Mr Right Frog or anyone new. That evening there was this quite handsome medical doctor who chat her up and was pushy enough to ask her for her msn. As it happened she decided to take her chances. She allowed him to add her on his list.

They started to chat and he was all about how hard it is to be a doctor in Israel and he works such long hours that he almost has no life. She was real understanding at which point our fellow offered a u-turn in his conversation and said that he would be real interested to have a “let’s play a game” and also offered to show his webcam of which my friend accepted. She was really sympathetic of his hardship, yeah poor guy works so hard and saving lives… so yeah why not see face-to-face each other…..

There was a shock… I huge one (ok not that huge but you know…) he simply had his member in the middle of the picture. No fuss just like that his proud brain was all displayed on the screen. That guy’s brain was his penis. I mean he reduced himself to become his desires.

My friend basically after registered the fact that this guy was actually a possibly “self-appointed private porn-star in his mind” a second or two later turned the guy’s webcam off and cut the conversation with a sentence “you are a dick” (and he was really)…

I was like “Nooooo” with emphasising my ooooo and then “OMG, how nasty”.

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One evening we were all home and we even had visitors and the atmosphere was really cheerful in our household. I was as usually moaning about my singlehood. At which point, the story of the above-mentioned guy was on the table. We decided this is a good time to test how far can people go in their stupidity. So we were all into the fact that let’s see my friend’s “membership”. After she brought her laptop to the kitchen where we comfortably set down in a row just like in a cinema and were all eager to become experienced in the “membership reality show”. All six of us made our bets that how long will it take to see “her private membership”. It was amazingly fast. It took us only I think 3 minutes, a couple of silly chat lines and here we go there it was…

lol and we were all laughing at a guy who was really so far the biggest arse I ever have seen in the entire online dating history.

Now here is a dilemma why would someone go on an online dating website where it is really about nice jewish boys and girls who are of course “adults” are trying to find a date and supposedly may be the love of their life…

It is a biggest wonder for me… especially that the web does offer its porn related websites where people only engage in and for sexual desires and interactions….

why would you do that on an “official jewish dating” website and why would you want to find your targets there for such a desire… a big question….

I think such a behaviour really related to the same category as sexual aberration… as it seems these men probably do enjoy the fact that they target “innocent” women and not being engaged with all the hassle of the “real-life”….

Unfortunately the only way to treat these experiences to have a laugh and move on, we all know that such a “membership” just not worth to keep up as it leaves nothing to the imagination….