I have been on eharmony for almost 3 months. It is the most impersonable system I have used. This can't measure compatability! It's chemistry, physical appearance and of course all other human related factors. Lavalife is better and free! What a waste of my money! I find that evey day I have about 6 or 7 new matches (mostly out-of-town) or have no pictures sent to me! Every man is SO wrong for me. The couples you see on TV....don' look like that in their pictures (at least the men don't). And the communication process....how does that work?......are we in kindergarten? And the questions they have you answer.......how boring.....I don't care who has been the biggest influence in your life....I don't even know these people !!!!!!! You might hear of the odd person hooking up.......the odds are that once in a while this occurs. WHAT A HUGE SCAM! PLEASE DO NOT WASTE YOUR TIME, ENERGY AND MONEY!

I will hopefully find my destiny the old fashioned way! Good luck to you all!