I chose the 3 month E Harmony membership. I had two dates with a man who finally admitted he had herpes. I met a narcissist who NEVER listened to one word I had to say. Then I emailed with a guy who used various expletives to tell me off when I realized we were too different and I expressed this to him in terms such as 'I see differences and feel we should stop here.' Then I get hit with the F-bomb from him.

I see two things: (1) E Harmony should screen men differently than they do women to weed out the problem men. (2) Women do not be nice. Go after what you want, do not put up with strange behavior no matter how small and STICK to your guns. Show the world that you mean business by showing how tough and committed to normalcy that you are because if you do this, you will attract the right kind of man, the healthy kind.

Thanks,
Janey