What a scam! I paid 17.99 and I can’t even chose my gender or have a picture of my face on my profile. I was stupid to rush in to buying the silver membership. I am a bi girl and I have been looking for a girlfriend for a while now on many sites but there is no one in my area. So when I saw that there was many bi girl on this site and in my area I jumped a bought the 17.99 membership. I could not even get a half-decent profile. They kept dining my pictures saying they were violating their terms. The pictures were of my face and nothing else, I could see if my face was hideous but I am very attractive. I wrote customer service and they said I was a man and I must up load a picture of a man or pay $9 to have my gender changed on my profile. I am asking for a refund. After reading all these reviews, I realize that all these women in my are probably fake anyway. To make matters worse I spent several hours filling out the profile and answering all kinds of questions, what a waist of time.