I have been sucked into eharm once before this current term, and each time I vow never to be taken in by them again. I am one of those "heavy" women one of the other reviewers complained about being matched with, and I have also complained to eharmony about not having any sorting by body type. They ask for height and take those preferences into account, why not weight? I know that all men are not attracted to my type - although some are - and so eharmony is matching me with men with no regard to whether they would be attracted to me or not, assuming that their matching system would override superficial characteristics such as weight. Well.... NO!!! Although I typically like the profiles eharm sends me, it is a two-way street, and if the man is not equally attracted to me, well.... It's a waste of my time, energy, and money, and I will never be taken in by them again. I will invest my time, energy, and money into sites who cater to bbws, as that is where I have had the best success.