I recently read the review about eharmony posted by Will. He makes a good point. I had problems with eharmony on the opposite side. I am a full figured gal...not excessively as defined by his standards. I hate lies and deception. I kept receiving matches from very hot guys whom I knew would never be interested, so most times I would close it before they did. I put a recent picture on my profile of myself clearing showing that I am not skinny. It is almost impossible to find success on eharmony. There is no way to list that you only want guys who are ok with a bigger girl and there are some out there! It was as much a waste of my time as the "hot" guys who eharmony matched me to. What a waste of money. I don't want a "hot" guy. I was always completely honest. Eharmony makes it hard to state really what you want. I understand matching people by their so-called chemistry, but you don't get to see their cant stands right away. You should be able to list up front that you dont want to receive matches from someone who is overweight or to old. Obviously the little bar that you can set to very important to not important doesn't work. You should also be able to list that you DO NOT want to get matches from someone who isn't into your body type. It's a great big waste of time.