I wish "no stars" was an option! I recently took the time to scan through the profiles recommended to me by jdate, and a good portion of them had not signed on in at least 90 days. According to their own rules, if you do not log in for 90 days your profile will be deleted. I guess not. That would make them look bad, now wouldn't it? In addition, the men who jdate "found" for me had nothing in common with me, or were several years older then my maximum age (I'm in my early twenties and some of those guys were 37 and above!), or, when I chatted with them, were absolute pervs. In addition, I have a very strong feeling that even though I asked Jdate NOT to notify individuals when I looked up their profiles (I'll get to the reason for THAT in a minute), they notified them anyway. Now--why would I not want jdaters to know I was looking at their profiles? Because I keep getting the same 20-30 recommended profiles sent to me everyday, and I was starting to feel like a stalker...looking at the same person's profile every day...and figured that would make ANYONE uncomfortable, match or no match. I can't explain in 6000 characters the various hints on people's profiles that made me suspicious, but I just KNOW that despite changing my preferences to make it impossible for men to know when I looked at them, some of them knew anyway. Once I realized what was going on, I deleted my account altogether, and I'm praying I never run into any of these guys in real life.