I joined eharmony about four months ago. It took a while to find anyone to communicate with me and when they finally did we never got past the email portion of the communication. I thought it seemed really strange that the communication stopped at the same time with three different matches. I have since cancelled my subscription as of 11/30/2009 and funny thing, I have received NO matches at all since the day I cancelled. They took my money and ran! I think they are preying on lonely people and giving them false hope that they will find true love. I am so angry about the way this company takes advantage of people. I prefer to think that God will put me where he wants to me to be to meet that special someone. People used to find each other long before eharmony came about. Everything about this site seems evil. Save your money, you shouldn't have to pay to find love in your life. It will happen when it's supposed to.